New year, new attitude? Nope. All the nopes, in fact. My life has changed. Radically. Through pain and grief it has changed, but I doubt I have.

So it is with much doubt that I live in my new normal as the same old me. Much of which involves doing things for my dead. Being a good daughter, niece, and granddaughter to those who have died. Due diligence to my legacy and all that.

Yeah. I am dubious too.

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